Let's talk about SLex… again
After reading some posts in Dandellion Kimban’s blog (one of my favourites in the SLblogosphere) i was thinking in SLex (cybering in SL), about what i think about it, what i like, what i dislike…
Actually this is not my first post about SLex, posted one some time ago, but was a meme so i was not so free to talk about it.
I practice SLex, i like it (with the right partner, exactly the same as RL) but well, SLex has different “rules”, i mean, it works in a different way. I think SLex is mainly intellectual, is made with imagination, words, small gestures… at least the good one, just jumping in a couple of balls is not SLex, is crappy sex animation.
As in RL i need some “closeness” in SL, i don’t mean to be long time friends, just to have some conversation before at least. What makes me attracted to someone uses to be the feeling of that intellectuality i was talking about before, the sense of humour, the way someone expresses himself with his avatar and his words. To fell all this, to feel attracted i need to know a bit someone, maybe just some minutes, a couple of hours, some days… it depends. “Physically” in SL what attracts me is more or less the same as RL, but not always, sometimes i’m attracted to non-human avatars, well actually to how their typists expressed themselves through them. The average guy that makes me feel “hawt” is male, human, masculine appearance and attitude, a bit “badass” look, good sense of humour, drama-free, taking care of his appearance, good conversation, … Ok, i know is the perfect guy but i’m talking about average, lol, i mean i felt attracted to some people that were not matching some of the requirements. I remember once, a lot of time ago, i was really attracted by a furry guy, he was masculine and incredibly sensual, and over all funny, we had a nice relationship.
In the SLex moment itself i’m more of words too. Chat or voice are different experiences, both interesting and both with their particular “languages” and ways of acting, it will depend on the partner i will prefer voice or chat, or maybe it will depend on the day. What i really enjoy is a mix of animations and words (chat or voice), but i had great experiences using just words without animations, using exclusively animations and “Xcite chat” is sad someway and over all quite empty and boring.
Language is a funny thing in SLex, as you may know i’m not native english but my SLex partners were basically native-english, that causes interesting situations. In chat, well, i have to confess i don’t understand some words becuase are slang or are the kind of words one can’t find in the dictionary, neither is a good moment to ask what it means so i just take note and try to know what they mean later or just imagine their meaning in the context. In voice is easier, more “fluent”, more “personal”. SLex in voice is something i prefer to do with really close people, i mean, with an usual SLover. Anyway, i have a deep voice and a strong Spanish accent, and… well… normally people find it hot. This way voice becomes another instrument. 
Let's talk about SLex… too
After reading a post by Timothy Lilliehook and another one by Tenebrous Pau about SLex, with this questions (but with his own answers, of course) i liked the idea, and even is not a meme, SLex is always a good theme to talk about.
- Let’s get it out of the way first. Are you a virgin in SL? [If you are, move to question 3.]
No, nor in RL. :-p - How long did it take you before you hopped on a poseball with someone? And I don’t mean dance balls.
Quite quick, possibly in my first week. I like to try things. - Do you own any talking genitalia, such as from Xcite?
I use nice genitalia, but is not talking one, i have my own words, don’t need a prim to speak for me. - Guys: Do you edit your “package” to be bigger?
Yes, I edit it, but not to look bigger, the last upgrade of my “package” actually had to make it smaller to match the proportions of my shape. - Do you rely on your talking body parts during your encounters?
No, as i said i have my own words, for me the most important thing in SLex is words, because there is no other way of communication with your SLex partner. - Forget the booty, let’s talk romance. Where’s a romantic place in SL to take someone to?
Are we talking about SLex or about romance? Well, i think the perfect place is my little island, quiet place, really quiet… and private! - When you go shopping for clothes, do you deliberately buy things that you think your gf/bf/partner/flavor of the week would like to see you in?
No, i always buy what i like even my partner dislikes it. Anyway, if there is something my partner dislikes and i like then i try to wear it while we are not together. - Let’s move to commitment: Do you think people get partnered too quickly in SL?
I presume this is a personal question, it depends on each and everyone, anyway partnering is just 10L$ each, and divorce 25L$ for the one that ask for it, quite cheap, at least cheaper than almost everything in Second Life. - Big wedding, small wedding, or no wedding at all? And do you get partnered BEFORE the wedding or afterwards?
No wedding. Of course i respect and enjoy other’s weddings, but personally the only wedding i will have will be a mock one with some dressed like Elvis in his worst Las Vegas days joining our hands together. - Last question, and it’s of course back to the booty. Be honest, how many sex items [furniture and poseballs] do you have around your place?
Some, but actually i have a HUD that rezzes nice animations where ever you are, so… i can do it in the sofa…. i can do it on the floor… i can do it on the kitchen table, baby…
This is not a meme, i’m not “marking” no one, but share your experiences if you want!
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